The author, Systemic Work

As a facilitator, you connect with your client. You can imagine that if there’s something going on within you yourself, you may be affected by your client’s process. And that’s perfectly fine as long as you’re aware of it and can allow yourself to feel it at that moment.

As the facilitator, it’s helpful to focus half your attention on yourself and the other half on the client and the constellation. You then use your body as an instrument of resonance and a mirror, and it’s helpful if your own system is like a blank sheet of paper. In this way, your intuition works at full capacity and you become the quiet, spacious centre in which the constellation takes place. You can then observe keenly and be at ease with whatever arises.